Thursday, 12 August 2010

Effective self-protection strategies (Part 3 of 6)


None of these factors is determinant by itself and each of them might denote other problems. Your goal, however, is not to pass judgement on strangers, but to protect yourself from danger. Aristotle considered prudence of crucial importance because this virtue ensures that you will be able to continue to play the game of life.

How should you react once you have identified a potential source of trouble? Trust your senses when it comes to detecting danger, but let your brains determine your course of action. Use your initiative and creativity to avert difficulties.

Ideally, you want to adopt cautious, discreet measures that spare you unnecessary conflict. Instead of confrontation, avoidance should be your preferred response. Here are some practical examples:

[1] Threatening movements: You are waiting at a queue to buy a cinema ticket and you see a man approach. He is walking exceedingly fast, bumping into passers-by, and he does not even stop to apologize.

His face shows a stern expression, his eyes are focused on the sidewalk, he is talking to himself and seems oblivious of his surroundings. He is headed to collide with people waiting in the cinema queue. For a moment, you think of calling his attention, but your prudence takes over. You take a step backwards and let him go through.

To be continued in Part 4

[Text: http://johnvespasian.blogspot.com]

[Image by David Tolnem under Creative Commons Attribution License. See the license terms under http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/us]

Effective self-protection strategies (Part 3 of 6)


None of these factors is determinant by itself and each of them might denote other problems. Your goal, however, is not to pass judgement on strangers, but to protect yourself from danger. Aristotle considered prudence of crucial importance because this virtue ensures that you will be able to continue to play the game of life.

How should you react once you have identified a potential source of trouble? Trust your senses when it comes to detecting danger, but let your brains determine your course of action. Use your initiative and creativity to avert difficulties.

Ideally, you want to adopt cautious, discreet measures that spare you unnecessary conflict. Instead of confrontation, avoidance should be your preferred response. Here are some practical examples:

[1] Threatening movements: You are waiting at a queue to buy a cinema ticket and you see a man approach. He is walking exceedingly fast, bumping into passers-by, and he does not even stop to apologize.

His face shows a stern expression, his eyes are focused on the sidewalk, he is talking to himself and seems oblivious of his surroundings. He is headed to collide with people waiting in the cinema queue. For a moment, you think of calling his attention, but your prudence takes over. You take a step backwards and let him go through.

To be continued in Part 4

[Text: http://johnvespasian.blogspot.com]

[Image by David Tolnem under Creative Commons Attribution License. See the license terms under http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/us]