In traditional education, lying is universally abhorred. Children are taught that one should tell the truth under any circumstances. Such paradigm is usually reinforced with morality tales of liars who suffer terrible punishments. However, when children grow up and become adolescents, they realize that some details do not match in the story they've been told.
The extreme emotionality of teenagers is
linked to their moral awakening. At thirteen, they complain that people
don't follow the principles they preach. At fourteen, they point out
inconsistencies between ideals and facts. At fifteen, they long to see
alignment between purpose and means, but where should they find it?
this context of straight virtues and twisted reality, becoming an adult
frequently leads to disillusionment, cynicism, or delusion. As a result, truth is reduced to the realm of talk,
actions become unpredictable, and promises unreliable. What an ethical
mess, what an intellectual nightmare.
The moral confusion of our
age is the natural consequence of contradictory premises in our
thinking. Contradictory ideals
lead to random actions, counter-productive outcomes, and unpredictable reactions. The key to personal effectiveness is ethical
We have experienced too frequently how chaos arises from contradictions
and waste from inconsistencies. Let us place our principles under reason
and our actions under logic, for no other approach can ever meet the
demands of reality. The best personal vow for 2014 is to make it a year without contradictions. Happy New Year to all my readers.
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