How much of what we believe about the world holds true upon detailed examination? Are our convictions solidly based on facts? What about our ethical values and fundamental goals? Do we resort to prejudice in order to hide irrational fears? Do we appeal to tradition in order to safeguard inefficiency?
It is time to clear the board and take effective action
It takes a strong
will and massive efforts to modify, for instance, the way we eat. On many occasions,
men and women undertake such changes only as a last resort, for
instance, after having suffered a heart attack or being diagnosed with
Embracing a better diet becomes a major challenge when
individuals endure constant social pressure to behave irresponsibly.
Business meetings in Russia are still being closed with rounds of vodka.
When colleagues and customers push you to drink, it is very difficult
to resist, even if you are conscious of the negative consequences of
Inferior food and excessive alcohol undermine our
health. Falsehoods sabotage our interests and place heavy burdens on our
shoulders. Misrepresentations can be pleasant and enticing despite
their lethal consequences.
The bigger the falsehood, the less
that will remain of your independence. If you subscribe to
misrepresentations, they will erode your entrepreneurial abilities. You
will forsake your initiative and become psychologically dependent. How
can you replace common myths by effective truths?
hope should be replaced by a workable plan
Do you ever tell yourself that
someone, somewhere is going to recognize your talent? Good things do not
necessarily happen to those who wait long enough. The effective truth
is that, if your talents are underutilized, you'd better take action to
promote them. It is up to you to improve your situation.
Irritation should be replaced by constructive action
Imagine that, after
suffering some minor abuse or discrimination, you become enraged,
lusting for revenge. Is someone going to come to fix the world and put
an end to unfairness?
The truth is that everybody makes mistakes.
It is seldom worth it to devote your time to correcting other people's
minor faults. Put the unpleasant story out of your mind and move on.
Apply your efforts to pursuing your goals, not to telling people off.
Passive acceptance should be replaced by initiative
in the shoes of someone who gets divorced in his mid-forties. For this
man, it feels good to hang around his old friends and be comforted for
the difficulties that he is encountering, but is this an effective
Maybe they will introduce him to someone nice who will
put his life back on track. Otherwise, he will just have to get used to
loneliness, won't he? The truth is that he needs to make a workable
plan to rebuild his life. Should he join a health club? Should he use
on-line dating to meet a new romantic partner?
Immobility should be replaced by entrepreneurship
Imagine that you practise a
beloved hobby that you would like to turn into a source of income.
Unfortunately, everybody is telling you that you should not take risks
at your age. You hear that your best chance of success is to stay put in
your job until retirement age.
The effective truth is that it
takes a long time to establish any sort of business. The sooner you
start your entrepreneurial career, the better off you will be in the
long term. Postponement does not reduce risk. A sensible approach would
be to start up your business on the side, devoting your evenings and
weekends to it.
In every case, hesitation delays progress
Do not allow wrong ideas to park your projects for years. Do not be
contented with bromides that waste your life. Throw away
misrepresentations and adopt an entrepreneurial attitude based on facts.
Waiting only keeps you down. Action solves problems.
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